The ego is the root of much suffering in the human experience. It is the part of us driven by desires, fears, pride, the need for attention, and the search for validation. The ego perceives the world in terms of “me” and “mine,” creating an illusion of separation from others and from the universe itself. However, this ego-driven perspective ultimately leads us away from true fulfillment, peace, and inner harmony.
The Ego of the Modern Man: A Struggle Against an Evolved Woman
In the modern world, the ego is often associated with a sense of superiority, particularly in the way men sometimes perceive themselves in relation to women. The evolved woman, one who is self-aware, emotionally intelligent, and spiritually grounded, can be a threat to the ego of a man who is driven by outdated beliefs about gender roles and power dynamics. The ego, in this case, perceives the woman’s strength and independence as a challenge to its own identity, and this often leads to friction, misunderstanding, or even hostility. It is important to note that the evolved woman does not seek to diminish anyone, but rather to empower herself and others. The struggle is not with her, but with the limitations of the man’s ego.
The Ego and Its Constant Hunger for Validation
The ego’s primary need is validation. It seeks external approval, material possessions, and status to feel “important.” However, this constant hunger for external validation is insatiable. The more the ego feeds on recognition and success, the emptier it feels. No amount of praise or material gain can ever truly satisfy the deep, spiritual longing for connection, love, and peace. In this endless search for external fulfillment, we lose touch with our authentic selves and the deeper truths of our existence.
The Ego and the Fear of Vulnerability
At its core, the ego is driven by fear. It fears vulnerability because vulnerability means exposure, the shedding of the false self, and the opening of one’s heart. The ego builds walls to protect itself from perceived threats and to avoid discomfort. However, it is through vulnerability that we can experience true intimacy, healing, and growth. The ego’s fear of vulnerability prevents us from forming deep, authentic connections with others and blocks our spiritual evolution.
The Ego’s Need to Control: An Obstacle to Spiritual Growth
One of the most destructive aspects of the ego is its need to control. The ego constantly seeks to manipulate and dominate situations and people in order to feel secure. This need for control stems from the belief that the world is chaotic and unpredictable, and that we must manage every aspect of our lives to avoid fear and discomfort. However, true spiritual growth comes from surrendering the need to control, embracing the flow of life, and trusting in the wisdom of the universe. When we let go of the need to control, we open ourselves to deeper experiences of peace, freedom, and spiritual connection.
The Boomerang of the Ego: The Harm That Returns and Poisons the Soul
Every action we take, guided solely by our ego, not only harms others but inevitably comes back to us. The ego pushes us to make selfish choices, trying to satisfy our desires and needs at the expense of others. However, this behavior does not go without consequences. Like a boomerang, the harm we inflict returns to us, not only in the form of tangible consequences but as an additional poisoning of the soul. Every time the ego drives our actions, a part of our authenticity and inner peace is compromised, accumulating spiritual poison that hinders our path toward serenity and self-actualization.
It is important to remember that we should not try to hurt others or harm them just because we are dissatisfied with our own lives. The ego, in fact, leads us to project our frustration and dissatisfaction onto others, but this does not resolve our inner turmoil. Instead of damaging those around us, we should strive to face our difficulties with awareness and understanding, working on ourselves without resorting to anger or revenge.
And if you do, know that it is a boomerang that will come back to you from the universe. Every negative action we take never remains without response. The universe returns to us what we send out, and every act of harm done with the ego comes back to us, enriched with pain and frustration. It is better to seek attention within yourself, dig deep to discover the roots of your dissatisfaction, rather than breaking and damaging those around you. True peace begins within, not externally. The only way to free ourselves from this destructive cycle is to make peace with the ego and start acting with empathy, compassion, and awareness.
To all those great egotists, mentally poisoned and toxic with jealousy, unhappy and starving for attention, hurting others in the process may you find healing, and may God bless you.Love is the force that dissolves the ego, freeing us from its chains and allowing us to embrace our true essence. Only in love can we find true peace and connection with the world around us